Call the Millers

Freebirth, Power, and the Loss of the Middle Ground | Call the Millers Ep.14

In this episode of Call the Millers, we share a brief personal update as we head into the Christmas season, including reflections on stepping back from social media and how that choice has been impacting our nervous systems, creativity, and sense of clarity.
The heart of this conversation, though, is a thoughtful and honest discussion about freebirth culture and the recent Guardian article examining the Free Birth Society. As women who deeply value birth autonomy, intuition, and the right to informed choice, this is not a conversation rooted in fear or opposition. It is rooted in discernment.
We explore how movements that begin as a rejection of harmful systems can sometimes recreate the very power structures they were meant to dismantle, just on the opposite end of the spectrum. We talk about the loss of nuance in modern birth spaces, the dangers of ideology replacing wisdom, and why the middle ground has become so uncomfortable for so many people.
This episode is for women who believe birth is sacred, who honor intuition and sovereignty, and who are also willing to look honestly at how power, influence, and absolutism can quietly reshape a movement.
A reflective conversation to close out the year, inviting more softness, humility, and discernment as we head into Christmas.
— Love Rainbow & Janna

Is Social Media Quietly Ruining Our Lives?

In this episode of Call the Millers, we sit down to talk about something so many women feel but rarely say out loud: the way social media is shaping our lives, our motherhood, and even our sense of community. We share honest stories about how easy it is to get addicted to our phones, how social media is intentionally designed to keep us scrolling, and what we lose when we spend more time online than in our real, present lives.
We also talk about my own journey of wanting to leave social media entirely and how I realized Instagram was the part of it that was quietly draining me the most. If you’ve ever questioned your relationship with your phone or wondered why being online feels so heavy, this conversation will feel like a breath of fresh air.
— Love Rainbow & Janna

The Truth About Water Birth and Why Moms Deserve Better Information | Call The Millers Ep 12

This week we dig into a viral article claiming that water birth is dangerous. We talk through the claims, look at the actual numbers, and share what we have seen in real life with the women we care for. I have had three water births myself and Janna attends them regularly, so we understand this topic on a practical level and a research level.
Our goal in this conversation is simple. We want women to feel informed instead of scared. Birth deserves calm, clarity, and honest evidence. Water birth can be a safe and gentle option and we unpack why this article created so much fear.
If you have ever considered water birth or if the recent headlines made you nervous, this episode will help you take a deep breath and understand what is real and what is reaction.
-Love, Rainbow & Janna 

Why Mothers Feel So Alone After Birth (And How We Fix It) pt 3| Call the Millers Ep.11

So many women walk through birth feeling pressure, fear, and unexpected turns, then find themselves trying to process the whole experience without real support. Today we talk about why mothers feel so alone and what true care can look like.
We get honest about rough births, unmet expectations, and how society quietly separates women from the community they need. This is a grounded conversation about connection, rest, safe spaces, and the kind of support that actually helps a mother heal.
If you want to understand how to hold space for a new mother or you’ve felt isolated yourself, this episode will meet you right where you are. Mothers deserve real presence, real care, and real villagers.
— Love Rainbow & Janna

When Your Pregnancy or Birth Plan Falls Apart (Pt 2) | Call the Millers Ep.10

So your pregnancy or birth plan is slipping out of your hands and nothing looks the way you imagined. You’re not alone. In this episode, we talk about what it feels like when everything changes, why there’s no easy answer, and how to navigate the shock, fear, grief, and pressure that can surface. We explore real scenarios, coping tools, communication with your team, and the kind of inner strength women rarely get credit for.
Every woman and baby is different, and we honor that while offering grounded support you can actually use. If you’re facing the unexpected in pregnancy or birth, this conversation will help you feel less alone and more capable.
— Love Rainbow & Janna

What Happens When Your Birth Doesn’t Go the Way You Planned? (Part 1) | Call the Millers Ep.9

What happens when your birth doesn’t go the way you planned? In this first part of a 3-part series, we open up about our own births that took unexpected turns; the ones that left us shaken, changed, and tender. We speak from the heart about what it’s like to walk away with birth trauma, the fear of having more children after a difficult experience, and the deep emotions that come when things go wrong. This episode is raw, honest, and heavy — but it’s also the beginning of healing. Next week, we’ll talk about what you do after you've had an experience like this. 💬 If you’ve ever felt like your birth story broke something in you — this conversation is for you. In this episode: Our personal stories of when birth didn’t go as planned What it feels like to experience birth trauma The fear that follows and how it shapes motherhood Gentle reflections for anyone scared to give birth again — Love Rainbow & Janna

Is It Too Early for Christmas? | Finding Joy in the Little Things | Ep 8

Episode 8:  Simple Joys, Christmas Lights & the Heart of a Happy Life
In this heartfelt episode, we get a little festive (yes, some of us decorate early 😉) and talk about why simple joys matter so deeply. Because the truth is, your life is made up of tiny moments. Learning to find joy in the everyday can be the difference between feeling heavy and feeling alive.
We wander through conversations about motherhood, friendship, community, birth work, and how the Danish do this so beautifully; reminding us that joy isn’t about timing or perfection, it’s about presence.
So whether your Christmas tree is already twinkling or still tucked away, grab a cup of something warm and join us for a cozy chat that might just shift how you see the little things.
— Love Rainbow & Janna
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Our Winter Solstice Home Birth 🌙 Trusting the Right People to Be There | Call The Millers Ep 7

On the Winter Solstice , the darkest night of the year, we welcomed our third son at home, surrounded by warmth, family, and quiet trust. In this episode of Call the Millers, we share my first home birth story; a peaceful, soulful day that reminded us that whoever is meant to be at your birth will always find their way there. We also talk about the human side of birth work: the limits of being on-call, the trust it takes to surrender to timing, and how midwives and doulas balance it all. 🌙 Listen in for gentle storytelling, deep reflection, and honest conversation about motherhood, midwifery, and trusting the unseen timing of life. 💛 Subscribe for more cozy, real, and soulful talks about birth, motherhood, and womanhood. — Love Rainbow & Janna

How to Know When to Trust Your Intuition (Over Everyone Else’s Advice) ep.6

In this episode of Call the Millers, we dive deep into the question — how do you know when to trust your intuition instead of outside advice?
 
From childhood moments of “just knowing” to listening to that quiet voice in birth, motherhood, and womanhood — we share our real experiences learning to trust ourselves again.
 
We talk about:
✦ What intuition actually feels like
✦ How mothers and birthworkers can strengthen their inner knowing
✦ Why outside voices can drown out your truth — and how to come back to yourself
✦ The difference between fear, anxiety, and true intuition
 
This one’s for the women learning to listen to their own voice again.

Women Are Lonely: Rebuilding The Village We've Lost | Call the Millers Ep.5

So many mothers, women, and birthworkers are feeling deeply lonely — not because we’re broken, but because the village we were meant to have is gone. In this episode, we open an honest conversation about modern isolation, the myth of self-sufficiency, and the quiet ache of doing it all alone.
We also explore our own accountability — how we sometimes close ourselves off to connection — and what rebuilding community can look like in a world that’s forgotten how to gather.
If you’ve ever felt unseen, unsupported, or like you’re carrying it all alone… this one’s for you.
✨ Listen if you’ve ever thought:
“Why does motherhood feel so isolating?”
“Where are all the women like me?”
“I crave sisterhood, but I don’t know where to start.”
🎧 Keywords: motherhood loneliness, women’s community, motherhood without the village, holistic living, birthworker support, finding your people